Fairfax, Virginia

Patti Philipse

Family Law Mediator & Attorney

Mediator · JD

For 37 years my practice has focused exclusively on settling family law matters out of court by either negotiation or mediation. Since adding mediation to my practice approximately 20 years ago, I’ve served as mediator for hundreds of couples. I also lecture on the subject monthly at different organizations, to spread the word about the benefits of divorce mediation and encourage out-of-court divorce settlement. I mediate all family law matters including asset division, debt division, retirement division, custody arrangements, and support. As a sole practitioner, I give my undivided attention to each client. In my role as mediator, I guide clients through all of the issues that need to be addressed in their Agreement, keeping clients focused on the issues in order to keep the process as productive and efficient as possible. The feedback I most receive from clients is that I am thorough, clear, and direct, and that I provide much-needed help and support in navigating what is otherwise a stressful situation. Bringing almost 40 years of experience to the mediation table, I provide clients with all of the legal information they need in order to make informed decisions, and I offer creative solutions to bridge the gap of disagreements, so that the parties can reach a mutually agreeable, workable settlement. Once all agreements are reached between the parties, I prepare a thorough, well-crafted written Agreement for signature.

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Family Law MediationDivorce & SeparationChild Custody & VisitationMarital Property Division
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Family Law, Divorce, Custody, Asset Division

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Hourly rate

$385

Format Duration Amount Notes
ONLINE HOURLY $385 Mediation rate working with both parties in a neutral capacity.
IN_PERSON HOURLY $425 Rate when engaged as an attorney (representing one party).
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Related programs
  • Family Law Mediation
  • Divorce & Separation
  • Child Custody & Visitation
  • Marital Property Division